something that i need to share.

[Hondamaker]

Originally Posted by iphoneconnie

Well said.

I have my moments.

[aggieman]

Originally Posted by iCafe

Hey man everything happens for a reason
good thing you didnt start dating this girl
she's a lesbian or bi
thats cool when when your partying at mardi gras
but trying to settle down with a girl like that
can't end well
you deserve better than that

Sam,

Remember everything iCafe said to a tee. Man you are young and there are many girls out there. You will find the girl that is right for you. Although you may think you know the one that is right for you right now, you are probably wrong. Trust me. Old man here. Lots and lots and lots of experience. Enjoy being yourself, being free, having fun, and testing the waters. You don't have to become an ass like I was for most of my 20's, but never ever let yourself get so emotionally involved with someone that your happiness absolutely depends on them being with you. There are so many things to be happy for in life and there are so many people that you can find to share that happiness with.

Take care of yourself, and if you got shit you need to get out of your head we are always here.

-Jason

[aggieman]

Originally Posted by Hondamaker

Ditto...I was gonna write basically the same thing (especially the part about Hayes)
Sam, my brother, you really need to talk to someone professionally. I hate to see you harm yourself like that---your compulsion is overriding your intelligence! Find some positive influences to get you into 'happy' mode.
I know you'll find a way out of hole, I have faith in you.

From what I read he's trying to find a way into the hole.

j/k Sam, listen to Jack, he is OLD and wise.

[patrickj]

Originally Posted by free2rhyme590

I realized at my age, its not worth the pain and depression of falling in love... Honestly, we have a lot of time for that... But right now... We should just have fun and live life... YOU need to focus on what matters... EDUCATION,TRUE FRIENDS,AND FAMILY...and most importantly, YOURSELF... there's someone out there for you... I'm sure you're a great and intelligent guy... And you deserve someone who will appreciate you for you... And one day you will find her without even looking

Very, very wise words! I've looked at this post a few times, because I like Sam and hate hearing the things in the original post, and thought about what I might say that was worthwhile or helpful - and came up with ... nada.

I think you're quite young yourself free2rhyme, but now I think you're the poster girl for 'wise beyond your years' !

[Buffy]

I have nothing to add but simply want to offer my support, Sam. Just keep hanging in there. As for the cutting, it's as destructive emotionally as it is physically; I'm sure you know this. Keep pushing through, you can kick this. Sending hugs your way.

[Alexander]

Sorry to hear this. You might want to get professional help from a psychiatrist, maybe anti-depressants? Just be sure to not mix them with alcohol, and make fair use of them though. Good luck.

[OJsakila]

whatever dude. Grow up. Its HER loss! You are the man. She is one of many that you should have fun/experiences with. I was drinking beers when you were born(and proberly a whole lot more, too). I'm here to tell you that as time passes you'll be lucky if you even can remember her last name. Puppy love is cute... But it aint real life. You are an extremely intellegent young man and I can assure you that your life will fufill your craziest expectations!! Keep strong and trudge ahead into the realm of life.
this should be considered a Life Lesson.

[cdinca]

Life is full of situations that seem terrible, but are actually great opportunities.

2 of your girl friends are having sex with each other!

In the future, you may not remember some random crush, but...
You Will Always Remember Your First Threesome!

Get to work!

[phsycology]

Dude, that is the deepest stuff I have ever seen on any forum. F**k I'm even nearly in tears lol. My friend used to cut herself a lot, and it was awful to see her come in to school with a sweat band on her wrist because we would all know what it meant.

FFS, man! Just pull yourself together! Stop feeling sorry for yourself and move on! Do you even know if she still likes guys? Do what's easy, and be depressed and useless, or do what's right, accept that they're an item, and continue with your life. Get help! I know it is hard for you, and you don't want to, but tell someone about your cutting, before someone finds out for themselves.

I'm saying this, because I consider you as a friend, as I hope you do me, and I've missed you round here, as have most. You're an intelligent guy, and we all know that you can get through this, but you need to know. You've fallen into a ditch, so now climb back out and keep on going!!!!

Please help yourself, Sam!
All the new people on here need to know how to jailbreak!

Good Luck Sam.

[phsycology]

Originally Posted by cdinca

Life is full of situations that seem terrible, but are actually great opportunities.

2 of your girl friends are having sex with each other!

In the future, you may not remember some random crush, but...
You Will Always Remember Your First Threesome!

Get to work!

LMAO!!!!!!!! haha I think I just woke everybody in my house up