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iphoneconnie · 07-10-2008, 07:27 AM

Hayes, I agree with you should not in any way be blaming yourself. Your father is a grown up that knows right from wrong, drinking impairs him but thats also his choice. As hard as it may be if I were you I would stay distant from these situations and not be brought down into it. You have made a great life for yourself and deserve to be happy. As stated above, your father has made his own bed that he needs to lie in. You do not need to be a part of it right now, have faith that maybe one day things will be better.

Hayesimus · 07-11-2008, 12:43 AM

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so there was an article in the paper yesterday. Everyone at work was reading it outside when I got there. Here is the jist of what the article stated.
"A police officer was injured over the weekend while responding to a domestic matter.
According to one Police Sgt., an officer was responding to a domestic incident at the residence of Hayes du Plantis III, 47.
Sgt. said du Plantis refused to cooperate with the officer and an altercation ensued. The investigator said the officer was attacked with a box knife.
She said du Plantis was arrested for first-degree battery in connection with the incident.
Sgt. said du Plantis is being held at blah blah blah on a $1 million bond set by Circuit Judge."

WOW. A million dollar bond! That means that someone would need 100,000 dollars to get him out of jail! CRAZY....

iphoneconnie · 07-11-2008, 12:56 AM

Sorry Hayes, I know this had to have upset you.

Hayesimus · 10-19-2008, 01:57 AM

so... My mom has gotten 2 letters from my dad in jail. She said he wanted to know if he could have a picture of her and me. I was like,"Uh... DEFINITELY NOT!" WTF? Why would she even bother me with that?! I told her I didn't even want to hear anything about him anymore, but she calls me up with every little detail all the same. Anyway. She said,"Well, I know people change..." I said,"He hasn't changed in the 8 years since I quit speaking to him..." She said,"I meant you. People change their minds. You used to love your dad." I responded,"I used to love meatloaf too, but I haven't eaten that in about 20 years..." Then she was like,"I know... You used to LOVE meatloaf..." LOL. I just hate her asking me because I sound like some cold hearted person to deny him over and over. MEH. Oh well I guess. Anyway. I'm no longer bummed out by this. Just rather annoyed at it.

I read how the off topic section has been slow lately so I was lookin through some of my threads to see if I could add to them, and it occurred to me that I hadn't updated on this in a while.

kenneth · 10-20-2008, 02:21 PM

first hayes i want to apologize for this but people NEED something to keep there mind right while they are incarcerated. If a simple photo is something that he can have that will give him hope then its worth it. I must say it that any person that will attack a police officer is a POS. (again im sorry) Before anybody starts talking trash i KNOW exactly what you went through. I want to tell you no matter what he has done or he does dont ever think that you are the same person. you can only control your own actions.

Hayesimus · 10-20-2008, 02:33 PM

Aside from the thought of random inmates having a glimpse of what I look like, I guess I also don't want him to have it because I just don't care anymore. I don't have a father. At least that's how I feel in my heart. I have NO positive male role model and haven't had one in a very long time. The closest thing would be my uncles who have both passed on in recent years. I honestly don't even know if he'd recognize me right now. He hasn't seen me in person in a great long while, so unless he was shown a picture and told that it was me he probably wouldn't know. And I kinda like that. I don't want to have to worry that some day in the future he could get released and then see me on the street and try to have a father son moment. Or worse follow through with his threat or something. I'm just saying that I want nothing to do with him. If he needs a source of hope, I know they have the bible in prison. Let Jesus deal with him for a change.

(that was not meant to be a religious insult or anything)

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