A serious post, not for attention this time. - Page 3

Hayesimus · 03-06-2008, 11:18 PM

well crap. i had a paragraph about how i was humbled by disadvantaged kids i worked with at a clinic, but i accidently hit back. and coasts... i'm hoping you aren't suggesting i get therapy. i for real am well adjusted. like i said i've made progress on my own in terms of my mother. i'd feel silly telling a professional all of that. and then expecting them to say something to make it better. and definitely don't want any meds or anything. i have a drug phobia. i really am not even comfortable with the levels of caffiene i've been consuming the past decade... but i love Pepsi and Coke!

coasts · 03-07-2008, 09:57 PM

yeah, man. all that.

Hayesimus · 03-07-2008, 10:33 PM

nono. For real I'm not socially awkward or anything. I may wear my heart on my shoulder at times but its not like my story is so unusual. Lots of people have had it alot worse. I just am an open book and don't keep it to myself.

free2rhyme590 · 03-07-2008, 11:48 PM

i think keeping things to yourself is alot worse than saying them aloud... if you bottle up your emotions and feelings, you tend to become off standish... idk...thats my opinion... even if you dont actually tell somebody, writing out your problems works too

depthnerd · 03-07-2008, 11:49 PM

If you bottle your feelings up, mostly anger you can develop brain cancer.

Hayesimus · 03-08-2008, 12:33 AM

that's why I talk about the stuff I went through. So I can get it out in the open and not let it fester. So to speak. But like I said. I at least have an open dialogue with my mom again. That's probably as much as one can expect but at least I don't hate her like I used to.

depthnerd · 03-08-2008, 12:35 AM

I don't tell my Mom anything really. There are certain people in school that I tell everything to - mostly people I've known for awhile.

Hayesimus · 03-08-2008, 12:45 AM

oh I didn't mean I was calling her up and gabbing LOL. I just mean I don't get anxiety at the sound of her voice anymore and I can actually be in the same room as her now. Really helps out at family functions. Haha

zanDark · 03-09-2008, 03:46 PM

Hayes... all I can say is I admire you for being such a great guy after all you've been through.

lots of hugs to you sweetie...and if you ever need a Greek ear to listen I'm here for you

Hayesimus · 03-11-2008, 06:12 PM

Thank you all for your kind words. I realize that it could seem a bit sad or deserving of pity, but I don't want anyone's sympathy lol. I mean I feel silly goin on about stuff when there are much worse things that could have happened.