Thank you for your response. I am a licensed private investigator and security is always an issue for me. I have sensitive information stored on my phone as well as confidential contact information so obviously this has had me really concerned. Thanks again for the reply.
I think you need to take it to Apple and have them see the problem and run diagnostics on it. It almost sounds like someone is using a spy tool (highly illegal) on your phone. It's very unlikely, but that's how it sounds