DaveB,
I was able to resolve this. I posted my resolution on the Apple Forum. I'm posting here as well. Hope this works for you.
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Ok. I seemed to have resolved my issue. I guess my calendar was corrupt or I have some never ending entries that I couldn't find. Thanks for the suggestions.
To solve my issue I created a new calendar, and simply re-entered each entry in the new calendar. I sync'd and it worked great.
Enjoy your iPhones.
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Originally Posted by DaveB
You, too, huh? Have you discovered a solution yet???
As I watch the sync progress, I can see the iPhone syncs the Contacts okay, chews on the Calendar sync for a while, then (in the iTunes display) changes to "Syncing iPhone..." but then gives the "iPhone disconnected" error message. When I check the Calendar, it has not synced, but my Contacts have updated (the prior sync step).
I, too, tried disabling my Work Calendar, but no help there.
Anyone...Bueller...?