To answer a few of your questions in one post:
I am currently using FC 9.0, but haven't found a way to sync my calendar.
The address listed below isn't needed, this is only for your computer.
Address: home.fc
The server below I am guessing is your email address?!?
Server:
emc@fwps.org
The incoming host and outgoing host will be as follows...
Incoming: fc.fwps.org
Outgoing: fc.fwps.org
***The Key here is to make sure you use the correct login name. Mine is shillie not ericshilling like my email address says.
To answer the question about SSL once you have the account setup, click ....
-settings/mail, contacts, calendars/(the name of the FC account)
-scroll to the bottom and click advanced
-scroll to the bottom and select OFF for use SSL
-then keep pressing the back button
Hope this helps,
~E