OK, I took my car to a stero store and had them add in this cord that played my ipod music through the stereo. (It's NOT an FM transmistter, it connects straight to the stereo) Now, this player thing plugs into the bottom of the ipod or iphone. It can also charge my ipod, but DOESN"T charge the 3G iphone.
I am thinking my best solution is to get a cradle for the car that will also charge my phone, however I will also need it to have an "opening" where it charges the phone to allow for the playing of music. Am I making sense? Here are some pics so You know what I am talking about.
That's how I plug the iPhone into the car to play it. I need a charger that will plug in there, but leave an opening to allow for that plug to still attatch to the phone.