so **** it, i just pulled the trigger on the waxstick white speck candyshell. was getting a bit frazzled, i must've watched 30 reviews lol. i found the candyshell on ebay for $20, but then realized speck won't cover the one year warranty unless it is bought from an actual retailer. i found it for $25 including shipping at
www.thegreatguys.com, so we'll see how it turns out!
i figure $25 isn't bad considering they have a really great warranty from what i've read. apparently the perfect 3g case doesn't exist, it's just a matter of finding which one of these cases problems suit your needs lol.