Hayes, you can't blame yourself for other ppl's actions. Like John says, he made his bed, he's gonna have to lie in it.
And yo would think by now that iRoid would keep his comments to himself if they are not constructive.
OJ's right, you are being a little too revealing in your personal life. Ppl can and will use that to hurt you if they had the desire.
All in all, you're a good person who shouldnt blame himself for other ppl's actions.
